Most of the time every family story has a kernel of truth, even if it is the smallest crumb. The trick is following the trail of crumbs to the truth. Below are a few steps that I have used in the past to help me find and follow the crumbs of family lore...
Ask family
Use the internet
Social Media
Find it on your own
Keep in mind:
Here are a few examples of stories I have discovered, investigated or verified after talking with family members
Start with the key information from the story, even if it doesn't seem possible. Uncle George may have lived in Tibet where he met his 6th wife, you never know...
Create a timeline
Start analyzing
Here are a few examples of stories I have discovered, investigated or verified using timelines:
Look for records that can prove or disprove the family story.
Create a list
Analyze the records you find
Update your timeline
Update your list of questions
Hopefully, your list of questions is shrinking, but if your research is anything like mine, it is only growing
Branch out your research to those that lived with or around, worked with and associated with the main character(s) of your story. Researching the lives of our ancestor's family, friends, neighbors and business associates can lead to a more complete and accurate picture of their life. Your ancestors did not live in a bubble. They went to school, work, church, block parties, and other events, and this is where cluster research comes into play.
Family
Cluster genealogy is a research technique employed by genealogists to learn more about an ancestor by examining records left by the ancestor's cluster. A person's cluster consists of the extended family, friends, neighbors, and other associates such as business partners.
Naming patterns
Friends
Neighbors
Business associates
Here are a few examples of stories I have discovered, investigated or verified using cluster research
Genealogy research can often seem like a solitary hobby, but there is power in numbers.
Look for research already started
Look for groups that are researching the same surname or location
When you feel that you have searched and analyzed all the records you can, DNA might be the next step. DNA research can help you:
Here are a few examples of stories I have discovered, investigated or verified using cluster DNA
The hardest part of this journey, at least for me, is getting to a point where I am comfortable and confident in my own conclusion. As soon as I feel I have a solid conclusion about what really happened, I start to second guess myself. What I have learned is that you have to start somewhere. Write out your conclusion and run with it. I typically try to include outstanding questions, concerns or doubts in my conclusion. This provides a place to go back to when you find a new clue or piece of information.
Write it Out and Share
So you have written your conclusion. Hopefully, you are a 100% confidence that you are correct, or maybe you still have some doubts. Either way, share what you have found. There are several ways to do this:
Some examples include:
Be Open to Feedback
Most importantly, be open to feedback and comments about your conclusion. Anyone that has taken the time to research and document their family history develops a sense of ownership over their research. This is natural, just keep in mind that not everyone understands the trials and tribulations of researching your family history. Nor do they have a clue as to the number of hours spent in libraries and courthouses, or late nights researching online. However, sometimes the most amazing and helpful information you can receive is from other's who have either no connection to your family, but have dealt with similar situations in their own research or those family members that have no real interest in genealogy, but have that one little tidbit of knowledge that might break the case wide open. Accept all input, feedback, and suggestions with an open mind and a researcher's curiosity. Be gracious when you receive feedback and thank the person providing it. This will create a relationship that may prove to be very beneficial in the future.
Disclaimer
I am not a professionally accredited genealogist, nor do I believe that this post covers all possible methods of researching or sharing your family stories. However, these are some of the tips and tricks that have worked for me over the last 15 years. As I try to take my own advice, I welcome any feedback, suggestions or input regarding tips and tricks that have worked for you. Thank you for taking the time to read this post. I look forward to hearing about your own research methods when following your journey to discover your ancestors.
Background
The first thing I looked at was the birth of the children of Charles 2 and Hattie. Their first child George Russell Hawley was born on April 11, 1913, in Bellflower, Los Angeles, California. This is confirmed based on the marriage record for George.
So it seems that the father of Charles 1, William Hawley, and Charles 2 and Hattie were both living in Bellflower, Los Angeles, California in 1913.
There is one thing that still confuses me a little bit about the birth of George Russell Hawley, the son of Charles 2 and Hattie. If you remember Charles 1 and Sarah Flewelling also had a son named George Russell Hawley, who was born on July 29th, 1902 in Cumming, Ogemaw, Michigan.
My first thought was that these two men might be the same person, but after some research, this doesn't seem to be true.
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Marriage certificate for George Russell Hawley and Mary Alice Heasley
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What my father told me...a little sketchy at best...he said Charles was a strange bird...took off with namesake and the girl down the road? ...worked on the Hover Dam...stayed in California...left wife and rest of his kids in Michigan to fend for themselves...I asked him if he took the girl for himself or namesake...dad didn't know...
I asked my dad about it, he said "Uncle Charley ran off with a younger woman to Las Vegas and then moved to California". He said no-one mentioned him again that he remembers.
In honor of St. Patrick's Day, I wanted to share the ancestor's behind my Irish DNA.
Based on my Ancestry.com DNA results, I am 31%, Irish and Scottish.
May the road rise to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face.
And rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the hollow of His hand.
Sarah Healy was born in Ireland between January 1st and June 15th, 1851. She immigrated to the United States sometime been 1867 and 1871. Based on census records, both of Sarah's parents, my 3rd great grandparents were also born in Ireland.
Richard Watchorn and Elizabeth Howley were both born in Ireland. Richard in 1824 and Elizabeth in 1825. They immigrated to Ontario, Canada sometime between 1841 and 1844.
May your glass be ever full.
May the roof over your head be always strong.
And may you be in heaven half an hour before the devil knows you're dead.